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I agree that Tate makes things worse. but disagree that (radical) feminism isn't failing young men.

If you have an dominant paradigm/overall narrative that (so to speak) basically tells you you're a worthless rapist, every women is holy and unquestionable and you should just make way and shut up all the time.. how do you think that in the long run affects men? How do you think that affects their self-worth?

And i'm not talking you and me, I'm talking especially the vunerable, impressionalbe one's who're already not very far up the dominance hierarchy ladder? proto-candidate incels if you want.

Now again, aside from the discussions here and elsewhere which I find interresting I don't really care about incels, I think its a bit of natural selection etc. But I don't see how the idea that feminism isn't what has caused this or at the very least heavily contributed is in any way viable.

Andrew rate is basically the monster (radical) feminism created.
I would be careful with that because all of those talking points are deeply rooted in the m-word, and even liberal guys who vote dem fall easily for them. Most guys fall for them, actually, regardless of political beliefs.

From a woman's perspective (esp a radical feminist, if you will), are you really saying that some men out there are fragile enough that they will follow Andrew Tate because a feminist said not nice things to them?
 
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I would be careful with that because all of those talking points are deeply rooted in the m-word,
First, That there^, is not an argument. In the same way that saying: "carefull now, saying Jezus was human borders on Blasphemy!"

You're not rebutting anything when you do so, you're just labeling things as "heresy". I don't care about labeling, I do care about good (counter) arguments that actually rebut and/or confirm mine.


second: No, its not. Misogeny = Hatred of Women. Not critique (or even just mere observation) of feminist ideology. Both are mutually exclusive.
From a woman's perspective (esp a radical feminist, if you will),
I applaud you for making the distinction between -woman's perspective- and -radical feminist-. Since they are indeed not the same in any way and infact most women do not identify as (radical) feminist. At best a slight majority (60% orso) identify as "somewhat feminist" (e.a. equal rights under the law, equality of oppertunity etc.)

But then again, I to identify positively with that having a wife and all so that would make me a feminist by that logic 😁

are you really saying that some men out there are fragile enough that they will follow Andrew Tate because a feminist said not nice things to them?
Yes? Is that so hard to believe for you? Where do you think all your hated MRA/incel what have you and the figures of Tate come from if its not a reaction to that?

- There are desaffected/ disenfranchised men.
- Feminism ís a doctrine that (seeks to) place women above men at every turn, seen as men are viewed as part of the alleged male-supremacy/patriarchy.
- There's edgelords like Andrew Tate who's an attractive (toxic) example for them, and someone who doesn't hate them the way feminists, and you, do.

what you don't seem to ask yourself is: What created the (ideological) void/ market for someone like tate to become as succesfull as he did?

What positive thing does radical feminism offer these men other then: "kill yourself, you loser oppressor" (even though they've probably never even spoken to a women, let alone oppress one)

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First, That there^, is not an argument. In the same way that saying: "carefull now, saying Jezus was human borders on Blasphemy!"

You're not rebutting anything when you do so, you're just labeling things as "heresy". I don't care about labeling, I do care about good (counter) arguments that actually rebut and/or confirm mine.


second: No, its not. Misogeny = Hatred of Women. Not critique (or even just mere observation) of feminist ideology. Both are mutually exclusive.

I applaud you for making the distinction between -woman's perspective- and -radical feminist-. Since they are indeed not the same in any way and infact most women do not identify as (radical) feminist. At best a slight majority (60% orso) identify as "somewhat feminist" (e.a. equal rights under the law, equality of oppertunity etc.)

But then again, I to identify positively with that having a wife and all so that would make me a feminist by that logic 😁


Yes? Is that so hard to believe for you? Where do you think all your hated MRA/incel what have you and the figures of Tate come from if its not a reaction to that?

- There are desaffected/ disenfranchised men.
- Feminism ís a doctrine that (seeks to) place women above men at every turn, seen as men are viewed as part of the alleged male-supremacy/patriarchy.
- There's edgelords like Andrew Tate who's an attractive (toxic) example for them, and someone who doesn't hate them the way feminists, and you, do.

what you don't seem to ask yourself is: What created the (ideological) void/ market for someone like tate to become as succesfull as he did?

What positive thing does radical feminism offer these men other then: "kill yourself, you loser oppressor" (even though they've probably never even spoken to a women, let alone oppress one)

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I wasn't trying to argue with you or refute anything. That is just a fact - those talking points *are* what these preachy alpha male types spout.

I would say most people can't separate criticism of feminism from actual misogyny. Maybe you do, maybe you're smart enough to do that, but the Andrew Tate followers don't. They very quickly go from one to the other, especially the "disenfranchised young males."

Unfortunately having a girlfriend or wife does not excuse a man from anti-feminist/misogynistic ideals. Case in point: everyone who was broken up with or divorced when Roe was overturned, or when they became obsessed with Andrew Tate and dudes like him while still in a relstionship.

I think the reaction to feminism by Andrew Tate's followers (and by extension the entire men's rights/incel sphere) is misguided. They should be pissed off at the patriarchy, not women. It is patriarchy that tells them they have no self-worth if they can't get laid. It is patriarchy that told them they could land a girlfriend/wife if they got a good job, a car, and a house (provider type). That responds the question you asked me, that I presumably have not reflected upon.
 
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I wasn't trying to argue with you or refute anything. That is just a fact - those talking points *are* what these preachy alpha male types spout.
it is not a fact that "those" specific talking points, So the ones that critique feminist theory and its effects, are misogenystic in their logos or essence. which is what you claimed they where rooted in.

Tate and the likes thereof can call 1+1 =2 all day long, that doesn't make that particular sum< therefor misogeny.

I would say most people can't separate criticism of feminism from actual misogyny. Maybe you do, maybe you're smart enough to do that, but the Andrew Tate followers don't. They very quickly go from one to the other, especially the "disenfranchised young males."
I think most people actually can. I think (radical) Feminists because of their doctrine simply have a huge problem differentating between criticism of its ideology and > therefor hatred-towards-women. But i'm happy to agree to disagree with you on that particular bit. Again, no fan of incels or tate for that matter.

Unfortunately having a girlfriend or wife does not excuse a man from anti-feminist/misogynistic ideals.
Misogeny is indeed no excuse, Holding an anti feminist perspective however perfectly excuses a man seen as, (again) 👏anti-feminism 👏and 👏misogyny👏 are👏 not👏 the👏 same, no matter how badly you want too.and no how often you (willfully) refuse to make the distinction.

Case in point: everyone who was broken up with or divorced when Roe was overturned, or when they became obsessed with Andrew Tate and dudes like him while still in a relstionship.
yea i'd like to see some numbers on that, how many people actually broke up or got divorced over Roe v wade. Because I don't think its all that many. I think the majority of women who're at those protests calling for "sex strike" aren't married or in any sort of a serious relationship to begin with but you're free to prove me wrong on that 🤷‍♂️, i'll happily admit thats just an assertion on my part.

They should be pissed off at the patriarchy, not women. It is patriarchy that tells them they have no self-worth if they can't get laid. It is patriarchy that told them they could land a girlfriend/wife if they got a good job, a car, and a house (provider type). That responds the question you asked me, that I presumably have not reflected upon.

They have no reason to get angry at something that is basically an ideological trope of the people who constantly berate them and put them down.

The concept of the Patriarchy, like the concept of Pay-gap (in the way feminism defines it at least) is a myth and a huge misreading of reality and history.

What it does is it picks a very very ittybitty tiny minute strata of hyper succesfull men (behind each is a very wealthy and powerfull woman by the way) so basically the 0.01% that owns most capita etc. and reflects that status and power back on every holder of a penis. There's nothing vaguely true or appropriate in viewing the world like that, unless you're an extreme ideologue.

The fact that every single human social system has some patriarical elements in them (and matriarical aswell by the way) like the aforementioned 0.01%, doesn't make the least patriarichal system (the west) in any way a overarching overall patriarchy, in the same way that a flat horizon at sea doesn't make the earth a disk.
 
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One of those Andrew Tate fans is quite active on another forum I frequent.
It seems strange to me as he comes across so obviously as a grifter. One of those self-help conmen with a modern coat of paint.
There’s a ton of articles and whatnot exposing that ludicrous “Hustlers University” of his as the same type of “Get rich quick” style pyramid scheme that grifters of his ilk have been using for decades with his own spin on things.

I wonder if these people get so far committed financially to these people that admitting they’ve been taken for a fool becomes too difficult?

The current climate is a grifters free-for-all that’s for sure.
 
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One of those Andrew Tate fans is quite active on another forum I frequent.
It seems strange to me as he comes across so obviously as a grifter. One of those self-help conmen with a modern coat of paint.
There’s a ton of articles and whatnot exposing that ludicrous “Hustlers University” of his as the same type of “Get rich quick” style pyramid scheme that grifters of his ilk have been using for decades with his own spin on things.

I wonder if these people get so far committed financially to these people that admitting they’ve been taken for a fool becomes too difficult?

The current climate is a grifters free-for-all that’s for sure.
There have been a few recent research articles where people deep into the incel scene genuinely believe they are victims
 
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Where there are desperate people, there are those who will prey on them to line their own pockets or further their own agenda.

Tate is just one of them.
The political spectrum has been full of them time immemorial.

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Where there are desperate people, there are those who will prey on them to line their own pockets or further their own agenda.

Tate is just one of them.
The political spectrum has been full of them time immemorial.

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Yep and all of them benefit from maintaining the existing social structures or "going back to the good old days"
 
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The political spectrum has been full of them time immemorial.

Oh not just the political spectrum. Its the ideological one aswell. Which is precisely why I neither subscribe to men like Tate, Nor the (radical) feminists post second gen, who I defacto see as the O.G. grifters out there.

If you have to complain about things like "we need more obese woman in video games because tomb raider is problematic" you have to ask yourself whether or not as a movement you've somewhat overshot your mark a bit. Especially when there's ordinairy people with actual problems out there.

Peterson to me is a breath of fresh air in that respect. Focussing on things like Responsibility and Competence, rather then Dominance and Aggression (something the radical feminists and Tate share in common)
 

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Oh not just the political spectrum. Its the ideological one aswell. Which is precisely why I neither subscribe to men like Tate, Nor the (radical) feminists post second gen, who I defacto see as the O.G. grifters out there.

If you have to complain about things like "we need more obese woman in video games because tomb raider is problematic" you have to ask yourself whether or not as a movement you've somewhat overshot your mark a bit. Especially when there's ordinairy people with actual problems out there.

Peterson to me is a breath of fresh air in that respect. Focussing on things like Responsibility and Competence, rather then Dominance and Aggression (something the radical feminists and Tate share in common)
I have to say, I'm not a fan of Peterson personally, but I get why he appeals to people.
But that's the point isn't it? The polarisation of literally EVERYTHING that is prevalent today would have you take a side of him being either some sort of infallible genius or the devil incarnate himself - no in-between 😂

I like my public figures to be less than perfect, that's what makes them human after all.

Bringing this around full circle and somehow back on topic, I've always been a big fan of the late Christopher Hitchens. Also a very divisive figure in some circles and even as someone who admires his work and writing, he got an awful lot of stuff wrong as well. Just a human after all ;)
 
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I have to say, I'm not a fan of Peterson personally, but I get why he appeals to people.
But that's the point isn't it? The polarisation of literally EVERYTHING that is prevalent today would have you take a side of him being either some sort of infallible genius or the devil incarnate himself - no in-between 😂
There is no justification to idolizing Jordan Peterson, or even thinking that "he makes good points" when women are being...

ah, screw it, this is where all men vs women debates end up, with both sides-ing the issue, NoT aLl MeN, and all the other bullshit pushed by dudes just like him
 
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There is no justification to idolizing Jordan Peterson, or even thinking that "he makes good points" when women are being...

ah, screw it, this is where all men vs women debates end up, with both sides-ing the issue, NoT aLl MeN, and all the other bullshit pushed by dudes just like him
He really doesn't matter enough to me to get angry about.
I'm not a fan of what he's peddling and there are far bigger fish to fry in the grand scheme of things tbh, especially with the tiresome culture war nonsense we're all subjected to these days. 🤷‍♂️
 

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He really doesn't matter enough to me to get angry about.
I'm not a fan of what he's peddling and there are far bigger fish to fry in the grand scheme of things tbh, especially with the tiresome culture war nonsense we're all subjected to these days. 🤷‍♂️
at least on reddit it's usually guys pushing the culture war nonsense lol
right now the top trending thread is "what are some disadvantages of being a man," which is a cesspool of m-. I swear I see a post like that at least once a week.
 
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I have to say, I'm not a fan of Peterson personally, but I get why he appeals to people.
But that's the point isn't it? The polarisation of literally EVERYTHING that is prevalent today would have you take a side of him being either some sort of infallible genius or the devil incarnate himself - no in-between 😂

I like my public figures to be less than perfect, that's what makes them human after all.

Bringing this around full circle and somehow back on topic, I've always been a big fan of the late Christopher Hitchens. Also a very divisive figure in some circles and even as someone who admires his work and writing, he got an awful lot of stuff wrong as well. Just a human after all ;)
oh I don't think he's infallible, there's lot of points I disagree with him on. So things like aristotilian philosphy and AGW and actually side more on a lot of topics with his frennemy, Sam Harris. A close friend of hitch and part of the 4 horsemen you might be familiar with.

But I do think he's a breath of fresh air compared to the polarising forces of:

1: Woman should be nailed to kitchen - Tate
and
1: All men are scum - Latter day Saints of the Church of the Holy Vagina.

;)

We sure agree on the Hitch being sorely missed.
 
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There is no justification to idolizing Jordan Peterson, or even thinking that "he makes good points" when women are being...
there's no real justification to idolize anyone or anything i'd say, including Idolization of (extreme) feminism. Everything is by definition a human or a human construct and as such, fallible.
right now the top trending thread is "what are some disadvantages of being a man," which is a cesspool of m-. I swear I see a post like that at least once a week.
maybe you should get off reddit ;)
 
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Its really interesting that this thread is on here. I have probably since i got the internet watched people who give advice and such like. Often i seeked those of a spiritual nature. So many i felt ended up being what might be called fake gurus in my opinion. It seems to be quite easy to somehow say things that are able to bring in a crowd of followers. I don't mean stupid spiritual statements i mean justifying a belief or ideology etc. But with these people i used to like there always came a point where i just heard them say something and i was like. Oh dear… they are either nuts, or said something ridiculous by mistake. For example one spiritual ( so called enlightened) chap said ( and he never joked) ‘when the human race lived on the moon’ then went into detail a bit. It was that which made me realize my doubts because of his occasional body language was true. He had an ashram with students there too.

ive seen a few Ben Shapiro videos and liked them alot. Jordan peterson ive liked also but dont like the titles of the videos often so haven’t seen many lately ( even tho they probably arent titled by him) i also seem to remember watching a short with a harsh opinion i thought was very closed minded. But i think my mate likes him a lot.

Only person ive reliably watched is Sadhguru. Sometimes think it’s nonsense and sometimes its very hard to grip what he says as its too un fathomable but when hes being practical and talks every day advice i cant help feeling its spot on. Ive watched him for about 12 years.

Alan watts videos are interesting.
Theres another guy who I’ve discovered recently ( whose name escapes me and i cant find) who has been through propoer hard life experiences like 2 divorces etc who says some really lovely stuff. Il put his name here when ive found it.

I’ve recently got to a place whete i dont feel the need for these kind of talkers as much and have grown in confidence on many things. Remained completely calm at work when a higher colleague ( a physiotherapist) basically said something so inn appropriate to me about me that other staff complained to our boss as he said it infront of people.

inside i felt infuriated and disgusted but just didn’t react, and was congratulated by others for not doing so but if i reacted the way i felt, id be searching for a new job. Interesting tho i calmed down fairly quickly and had to be in a car with him for an hour and do community visits. ( patted myself on the back that day ) 👍
 
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There's a really fun back & forth between him and Wim Hof, A dutch "Shaman" if you will who's Cold Therapy, breathing and meditation routine i've been following.

He's fun to watch. Imust say though that (but you can disagree with me on this) I don't really consider him (even though he has quite a few books under his belt) an public intellectual though. Same goes for someone Shapiro. They don't bring that much groundbreaking or new ideas to the table. Shapiro in his judeochristian traditionalism and Sadhguru with Hinduïsm/ dhyana yoga

Public Influencers? yes,
and, if its your cup of tea, Sprititual advisors? (especially in case of Sadhguru) definitly.

but public intellectuals? well it depends, I'd go with: not so much with either :)
 
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There's a really fun back & forth between him and Wim Hof, A dutch "Shaman" if you will who's Cold Therapy, breathing and meditation routine i've been following.

He's fun to watch. Imust say though that (but you can disagree with me on this) I don't really consider him (even though he has quite a few books under his belt) an public intellectual though. Same goes for someone Shapiro. They don't bring that much groundbreaking or new ideas to the table. Shapiro in his judeochristian traditionalism and Sadhguru with Hinduïsm/ dhyana yoga

Public Influencers? yes,
and, if its your cup of tea, Sprititual advisors? (especially in case of Sadhguru) definitly.

but public intellectuals? well it depends, I'd go with: not so much with either :)
I think you are right actually. Il definitely check out the thing between Sadhguru and a dutch shamen. ( i am half dutch, my dutch side must be where i have that trance herratage or something seeing as so many dutch producers 😁)

what i do feel Sadhguru brings is a sharp direct message of how to understand life and cope better with struggles, but yes, definitely less of an intellectual. He has however got the best description ive seen for what inteligence is and how it must best be used. His explanation for many human struggles is that we have just let our intelligence work against us rather than for us. He has a brilliant word for it ( again i can’t remember it yet tho)
 
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I think you are right actually. Il definitely check out the thing between Sadhguru and a dutch shamen. ( i am half dutch, my dutch side must be where i have that trance herratage or something seeing as so many dutch producers 😁)
heh, you brittons are an equal if not bigger force m8.

concerning intellectual or not, i'm actually =perfectly in favor or changing the topic title to "public figures". as it leaves some more room for discussion as well as discovery (and less pompous labeling) :p
 
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