let me get this straight - you would avoid hugging people unless they hug you first, but you wouldn't hug a guy? That is an interesting concept of 'people' then
haha not like that! to be more specific ,i grew up in a country where there is no concept of "hugging"! so it took me time to get used to it,i'm not saying hugging a dude is gay. haha u want huggies ? :P