How NOT to react when your child tells you that he's gay.

[PegaSus]

Shocking video I found on Nedhardy.com
Incredible and disturbing footage if you ask me. How can his own mother say that to him?

[Nemezijus]

When people are in denial deeply embedded in religious frame there will be no reasoning with them. It's like trying to bring memories to a Alzheimer's patient. Though it must've hurt to find out how your family really 'loves' you, I believe he will be better without such ignorant and hateful bigots who do not deserve to be parents in the first place.

[Sunshine]

@badass @NomadZXZ @Voci

[Gagi]

Southern American accent, right?

Ignoring scientific proof and "going by the word of god"... And kicking your son out of your house for that. No comment. If I was in his place, I'd whack both parents' asses and leave for good. Or take a picture of a random dick/or a scene from a gay porno, write "I love this" or something more creative, print it and tape it all over the walls. Just to make them miserable.

Jokes aside, this truly is disturbing.

[Voci]

When people are in denial deeply embedded in religious frame there will be no reasoning with them. It's like trying to bring memories to a Alzheimer's patient. Though it must've hurt to find out how your family really 'loves' you, I believe he will be better without such ignorant and hateful bigots who do not deserve to be parents in the first place.

No words to add.

[Hensmon]

Fuck being brought up by cunts like these.

[Phael]

nah srsly...that´s not how it´s meant to be.
the parents here are ignorant, and did i hear grandma also?
brainwashed by fictional believes in their savior who still lets people starve and die - but i don´t wanna derail the thread with this.

just sayn that´s wrong and they should be ashamed of themselves, you can talk about every problem and there´s always a peaceful way out :/
disowning the own child is not something you can revert after doing so...oh man

[Katadunkass]

This is one of the most disgusting things I've ever seen. These adults (I refuse to call them parents) doesn't deserve to raise a kid in any sort of way. I really hope this young man will find a family who loves him for what he is; a human like everyone else.

[badass]

I dunno honestly wtf to do with my parents...I cannot even fathom what their reaction would be like...they would most likely blame the fact that I'm not religious and find all sorts of religious bs that they've been brainwashed with...some people are so ignorant that there's really NO hope for them to live as human beings on this planet...

I mean come on wtf you're an adult and u still can't see that this is not a choice? I would make them feel worthless if they ever did that...fucking with the wrong will only lead to bad things...

[Altair]

And even if itwas​ a choice, what difference should that make??

[NomadZXZ]

Attitudes toward this seem to be changing very rapidly, and for the better. More and more young people feel comfortable coming out to their families, and even families who may be conservative/less open to that lifestyle. Since most parents truly love their children, they will be receptive to it and ultimately realize that they love their son/daughter regardless. Eventually everyone will have family, friends that are gay and it won't be any different than having friends of a different race, religion, etc. Realizing there will always be exceptions to the overall consensus, the future looks bright.

[Alex E]

Kid's holding up well, good for him!

[engineKUBWA]

I'm not surprised unfortunately, having grown up in a close-minded home. I'm not gay, but I've never been able to tell my religious parents that I want nothing to do with religion in any shape or form.

[JTTrance2011]

I dunno honestly wtf to do with my parents...I cannot even fathom what their reaction would be like...they would most likely blame the fact that I'm not religious and find all sorts of religious bs that they've been brainwashed with...some people are so ignorant that there's really NO hope for them to live as human beings on this planet...

I mean come on wtf you're an adult and u still can't see that this is not a choice? I would make them feel worthless if they ever did that...fucking with the wrong will only lead to bad things...

Well, the problem is that religions were suppose to give hope to the people to overcome hard times not to creat them, but unfortunately as much as we don't want that, it's what's happening, people become so fanatic about their religions that at the end of the day, they lose the complete ethic of life and sense of love, and that's very sad to see this happening in our World.

[Darren]

Was just looking through some images on the net and saw this, thought I'd place it here. This is real love

Nate,

I overheard your phone conversation with Mike last night about your plans to come out to me. The only thing I need you to plan is to bring home OJ and bread after class. We are out, like you now. I’ve known you were gay since you were six. I’ve loved you since you were born.

P.S. Your mom and I think you and Mike make a cute couple.